How to make a good cunnilingus?
Want to spice up the preliminaries with your partner? To give an orgasm without penetration? To have an oral break between 2 penetrations? To try yourself at 69? Cunnilingus is one of the favorite sexual practices of women, the one that gives them most often orgasms, and yet it is too neglected by men to their liking. Be careful though, some women do not like at all this practice, for whatever reason, do not force anything, suggest everything, and move on if it does not please your partner.
You have never practiced cunni, or you with the impression not to provide cunni good enough for your partner: do not be impressed by the apparent technicality of cunnilingus: a lot of desire, sweetness, a little of technique and you will be an expert in oral sex.
hygiene
As for oral sex, as for sodomy, it can not be repeated enough, but in the privacy of excellent hygiene is the basis of comfort and respect between partners. The vagina may contain bacteria that can enter the mouth, and few men appreciate vaginal discharge or menstrual loss. Take a shower or bath before performing oral sex. This is also valid for your hands and your tongue that will slip into the sex of your partner.
The anatomy of the female sex
What is more important than knowing the woman’s body and her intimate anatomy to better deal with it? Cunnilingus is to caress and lick with the tongue vulva, that is to say, the female sex. The vulva is mainly composed of labia majora, which outline the outline, small lips that swell and blush during sexual arousal, clitoris, rich in nerve endings and erectile (it swells during the excitement, as the penis), and the vaginal opening.
You will understand, the labia minora and clitoris are the 2 most sensitive parts of the vulva, those on which it will be necessary to linger, without however leaving the other parts. It is therefore important to identify these different parts in your partner: a little practice and common sense should be enough!
The preliminaries
With oral sex, there are times when we like her partner to get straight to the point, but often a good teasing can raise the excitement before moving on to serious things. For cunnilingus, it’s the same, your partner can enjoy seeing you plunge your head between her thighs without notice, but it will undoubtedly appreciate even more than you caress her body, kiss her, that your hands seek and then find the crotch, that your mouth lingers on his lips, slides on her breasts, before skidding to her sex ...
Once your mouth placed on her vulva, check that it is installed on the back, and that you yourself are in a comfortable position: a cunnilingus can last several tens of minutes, so do not risk a cramp!
Good cunnilingus techniques
For starters, there is no ideal technique that works every time: all women are different, have a different sensitivity of the clitoris, lips, different desires. You are not a magician, the best technique is to be in constant listening of your partner, to feel what makes him feel good, which is less, to vary the movements of the language, of you stop if she asks, to go harder if that’s what she wants.
Clitoris or lips?
Why choose since you can linger alternately on one or the other? Gently lick each sensitive part of her sex, and according to the feelings she feels, insist on one or the other. Do not hesitate to introduce your tongue into the vaginal opening, and to lick the area between the clitoris and the orifice which is also very sensitive.
Vertical, horizontal or circular movement?
Each woman has her preference, some swear by a vertical tongue movement from the clitoris to the opening of the vagina and vice versa, others love when the tongue strokes the clitoris and lips horizontally from left to right, and then you can also play with a circular motion of the tongue on the whole vulva.
When you feel the orgasm come to your partner, continue the movement that you are doing, do not change until she enjoys. When rising orgasm, vary the speed with which you move your tongue, and the pressure you exert on the clitoris, louder and louder when you feel it is close to the 7th sky ...
Sweetness or pressure?
We recommend that you begin to put your tongue gently on the clitoris: very sensitive, it must be used during the first minutes. As you go, you will alternate the sweet moments and those where your tongue will press harder, and when your partner approaches orgasm, the pressure exerted will be stronger and stronger.
With or without the fingers?
You have a tongue, but you also have 10 fingers (and a navel too but it is less useful), so use it! While you lick the clitoris, caress the rest of the vulva with your fingers, and introduce 1 or 2 in her sex, caress the inside of the vagina, and play with movements back and forth that will echo the movements of your tongue on the clitoris to provide maximum pleasure.
For the more adventurous, and if your partner accepts it, slide a finger or 2 towards his anus, stroke it, and if the feeling passes, introduce a finger, it can multiply the pleasure felt during cunnilingus .
Eye contact or not?
Do you like when your partner looks you straight in the eye during a blowjob? Well for women it’s often the same thing, do not hesitate to admire taking pleasure in the onslaught of your language. If that bothers her, do not insist ...
And the rest ?
It is not because you are focused on your tongue, that the fingers of your right hand are busy, that you must neglect the rest of your partner’s body. With your available hand caress her chest, her belly, her buttocks, her thighs. All these caresses will give him even more sensations.
The 5 golden rules of cunnilingus
- Put yourself in good mood: take both a shower before, get comfortable to enjoy this good time.
- Be constantly listening to your partner: and when his orgasm rises concentrate on the movement of your tongue that gives him this pleasure.
- It’s all about movement and pressure: find the tongue movement that gives you the most pleasure, dose the pressure of your tongue on your sex.
- Use all that you have at your disposal: your tongue, your hands, her clitoris, her lips, her orifice, her anus, her thighs ...
- Once orgasm is reached, stop everything: remove your tongue and let your partner catch his breath. Right after orgasm, the clitoris becomes very very sensitive and the mere fact of touching it can be unpleasant for the woman.
To go a little further
As for sex, cunnilingus can be practiced in many positions and not that the woman on the back: in 69, each taking care of the sex of the other, or the man lying with his partner who comes on him present his cock to lick, or doggystyle, the man licking from behind ...
There are orgasmic gels to boost the sensitivity of the clitoris, applied massage on the vulva before a cunni, it will intensify the feelings of the partner and boost the level of orgasm: and if you tried them?
